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HOW OFTEN ONE SHOULD MASTURBATE _
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Voter
2022-08-07 15:42:06 UTC
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HOW OFTEN ONE SHOULD MASTURBATE

Masturbating is fine for you, but ejaculating every day is deleterious. You
should wait at least 72 hours between ejaculations. That means ejaculate no more
than twice per week. The ideal time to wait between ejaculations may be 21 days.
There is a testosterone bump for at least 6 days after the first 3, but there are
still added benefits to waiting longer, up to 21. You need to learn to have
orgasms without ejaculation. Ejaculation is kind of "anticlimactic" and people
are in error to confuse it with orgasm.

You can masturbate every day, but in addition to ideally waiting at least 3 days
(72 hours) between ejaculations, for the first 2 - 4 days it's harder to
masturbate without ejaculating; then you sort of "seal," and won't ejaculate quite
as easily by the 5th day. If one has a masturbation habit, the urge to masturbate
and ejaculate is also much stronger the first 2-4 days and then dissipates. Then
the chi/prana/orgasmic energy is higher after several days, and one can have
multiple orgasms without ejaculating. This is energizing and not deleterious.
This is how the benefits may persist past the testosterone bump of the first 3-10
days. Energy created during orgasm may be directed into other parts of the body,
including strengthening the muscles. You may want to read "The Multi-orgasmic
Male" by Mantak Chia. On the other hand you need to ejaculate or at least
masturbate or have sex, or testosterone levels can drop drastically after maybe 2
months if one was to have no sexual activity, or if you always waited 30 days or
more, over a few months; ejaculating at this point can restore testosterone after
just a few ejaculations, if it hasn't been too long, and you won't feel tired anymore.

In addition to time; love = orgasms, and obviously lust = orgasms. If you have
more love and/or lust you will create more energy for more orgasms. Never force
yourself to ejaculate without enough horniness, but try to relax, fantasize, look
at porn or something. Forcing yourself is self abuse, and is more likely to result
in the same tiredness that comes from ejaculating every day, and some call "self
pollution," or the "little death,' but really I believe is just a tiredness which
is a result of ejaculating without enough energy from time, lust, or love, and
leaving the male beleaguered.

Also it is the physical stimulation without sufficient mental stimulation that
causes ejaculation. (Except for the premature ejaculation issue, I'm not sure what
causes that, when you're so mentally excited that a little physical stimulation
causes ejaculation; that seems to be the other way around).

If you do ejaculate you may want to eat 2 apples + a Zinc Vitamin. This will make
you feel way better. Optional is any protein. Substitutes to the above include
strawberries, coconut water, or any fruit or anything with sugar. Also Vitamin E
or a multivitamin may help a little. It is imperative to replenish yourself
immediately after ejaculating and eat an apple.

Another way to get orgasmic energy is by opening the chakras and bringing astral
energy into your etheric body. Bring the astral energy down into the crown chakra
and transmutate it into orgasmic and healing energy. Astral energy = Orgasmic
energy = Love. They are all one and the same.

Follow the 3x21 day rule. Ejaculate every 3 to 21 days. Sometimes you may want to
"clean the pipes" and ejaculate a couple days in a row, but you might wait another
3 instead, and 3 x 21 is just the current best guess information and general rule.
Listen to your body, your mileage may vary. Anyways, ejaculate at least every 21
days if you are absolutely celibate and have no masturbation. If you masturbate
or have sex frequently, then perhaps one could go longer, but you have to
consistently stimulate, and will have to figure this out better for yourself, and
that the fluid in you feels fine, and your testosterone is not lower.

Also, if you're masturbating or sexing, and get close to ejaculating, you may have
to stop, similar to a refractory period, or risk ejaculating. If you had enough
energy, this might not be the case. There is energy coming out of the center of
your hands, putting your hand over your perineum can put energy into that area,
and help you orgasm. Also possibly just above your dick, several inches below
your belly button. Also, orgasmic energy is supposed to be directed up your
spine, and down your front, touch your tongue to the roof of your mouth, to
complete this circuit, also when you get close to ejaculating, do the same, and
roll your eyes lightly back in your head, and put your hands over your eyes
directing such energy into your eyes, and help yourself not ejaculate. This can
balance the energy, so can alternatively putting your hands over your throat, thus
directing energy out of the center of your hands into your throat chakra. There
are other tricks, before this, such as squeezing the blood out of the head of the
penis, and "The Multi-Orgasmic Man" has others. If you know of any more info, you
could post it here. Obviously we don't know everything, and want to learn more.
After you ejaculate, push all the excess ejaculation out of your cock, from the
perineum or prostate gland up, and take a piss.
Voter
2023-04-19 20:33:56 UTC
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You should wait at least 72 hours between ejaculations. That means ejaculate no
more than twice per week. The ideal time to wait between ejaculations may be 21
days.
On the other hand you need to ejaculate or at least masturbate or have sex,
or testosterone levels can drop drastically after maybe 2 months if one was to
have no sexual activity, or if you always waited 30 days or more, over a few
months; ejaculating at this point can restore testosterone after just a few
ejaculations, if it hasn't been too long, and you won't feel tired anymore.
Ejaculate every 3 to 21 days.
Anyways, ejaculate at least every 21 days if you are
absolutely celibate and have no masturbation. If you masturbate or have sex
frequently, then perhaps one could go longer, but you have to consistently
stimulate, and will have to figure this out better for yourself, and that the
fluid in you feels fine, and your testosterone is not lower.
There was a guy who said he went six months without ejaculating, having sex with
his wife, doing tantra and having multiple orgasms, and then he ejaculated felt a
little tired, and was fine.

There was a player who supposedly was doing tantra, but he wasn't getting laid. He
went too long and his testosterone got to low, and he had to go to the Doctor. It
can have other implications.

There were monks who were 100% celibate, and prided themselves on having "semen
stones." I don't know what that is, but it sounds bad.

There was a guy who never ejaculated, or sexed or masturbated, and he went to the
Doctor, and the doctor forced an ejaculation by pressing on the glands above his
prostate. And it came out like spaghetti, and he was screaming. (Of course, he
probably wasn't very sexually aroused either at that moment.)

If you just go celibate and don't ejaculate or masturbate the fluid *might* start
to feel BAD after 9 or 10 days. But if you masturbate and fill up the vas
deferens with cum, and then relax it after your arousal subsides it perhaps moves
the fluid around, and seems alright.

I think when you're masturbating, you're more likely to end up going celibate if
you haven't ejaculated for some time. That's the thing to look out for. If you
don't masturbate, or do anything sexual or perhaps at least arousing, you have to
ejaculate at least every 21 days, on average.

Keep in mind, that ejaculation is male ovulation. You wouldn't want to be on the
rag all month.

Really sex is energy, you can give one another energy orgasms without touching one
another through your clothes. Research "energy orgasms," if you want to see.

If you had a sex partner, you could gain the /energy/ tonight to have orgasms
without ejaculation, (though if you wait 4-5 days, you kind of "seal" and its
easier to orgasm without ejaculation) rather than having to build up the energy
over 4-6 weeks (ejaculating no more than every two weeks), or perhaps resort to
fetish porn.

If you do tantra, and always have sex or masturbate, like the guy who did it with
his wife for six months, you can maybe go for much longer then 21 days. If you
stop having sex or masturbating much, and begin to feel tired after 30-60 days,
it's probably because your testosterone's low. If you ejaculate several times
over 9 days, you'll be back to normal, and everything will be fine, but if you let
it go for many months, you could run into more serious problems. No one really
knows the science precisely sufficiently that I've heard, though this subject has
been discussed since ancient China.

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